Once invisible labor is made visible, have a system to handle the details
The idea that the men who manage complicated projects at work are incapable of attending to the details of domestic life has always been bullshit.
In treating everyone’s capability as a given and building on it accordingly, lawyer and mediator Eve Rodsky has created a subversively brilliant playbook for managing domestic work. In Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do (and More Life to Live), she brings the tenets of organizational management into the home and makes them work for everyone. The book can be ordered with a physical deck of cards, and together, they help partners divide and conquer caregiving and housework.